CAUSES OF MALE HOMOSEXUALITY
The causes of male homosexuality we can define as follows:
1. Homosexuality is the result of sexual arousal towards oneself
(narcissism), while it is
worn a particular garment or object, while oneself is naked, or while oneself
is imagined in a homosexual relationship scenario.
2. Homosexuality is the result of an incomplete development of male
identity, due to male attributes
that the homosexual feels he has no or presents a deficit.
Both causes can coexist together or separately, and be the reason why a
man feels sexual arousal towards people of his same sex.
A. Narcissism, narcissistic
fetishes or homosexual fetishes as causes of male homosexuality:
The following example explains it better:
If a man gets aroused by wearing briefs , Will he get aroused by seeing other men wearing briefs?
The answer is yes.
Yes, he will get aroused! It is due to a narcissistic sexual theory that dictates:
"That
that arouses you on your own person will arouse you to see it in other people of
your same sex."
Another one is:
"That
that arouses you of your own body will arouse you to see it in other people of
your same sex."
This is because the man identifies sexually with those who meet the male
attributes that to him gets aroused in his own person.
If this man gets aroused by wearing briefs, he will identify
sexually with those men who wear them, and now, not only he will feel sexual
arousal towards himself, but also towards other men who wear briefs.
This is a clear indication of how narcissism degenerates into
homosexuality.
But what would happen if this man does not get aroused himself by
wearing briefs?
Will he get aroused by seeing other men dressed in briefs?
The answer is no.
Since there is no sign of narcissism, there is no possibility that there
is apparently a manifest homosexuality.
In the case of the man who gets aroused by wearing briefs:
Why does he get aroused by wearing briefs?, causing not only his
sexual arousal towards himself, but also towards other men who wear briefs, which is a clear sign of a manifest homosexuality.
In this case, it is because the wear of the garments stimulate his
senses, especially the sense of touch, and mainly where erogenous zones are
concentrated.
Any item of clothing that comes in contact with the erogenous zones can
stimulate them and provoke sexual arousal and unwanted erections.
Erogenous zones are those parts of the human body (not only the
genitals) having a higher sensitivity, the stimulation of which may result
in the production of sexual arousal.
People have erogenous zones all over their bodies, but which areas are
more sensitive than others vary. Some may resent stimulation that others find
arousing. The stimulation of these areas can produce gentle, mild or intense
arousal.
Some of them are:
Buttocks, neck, lips, tongue, underarms, nipples, back, feet, chest, penis, glans, prepuce, anus and testicles.
Buttocks, neck, lips, tongue, underarms, nipples, back, feet, chest, penis, glans, prepuce, anus and testicles.
Briefs serve as stimuli for this man, making that erogenous
zones, which are affected by the wear of them, are stimulated, and
cause him sexual arousal and unwanted erections.
In this case, if the penis and buttocks are stimulated by wearing briefs,can be due to the material from which they are made.
Sexual arousal is
manifested mainly with an erection.
This is a clear indication to know what thing arouses you and what thing
attracts you.
If a man has an unwanted erection and feels sexual arousal only when
wearing a lycra boxer brief, for example, this can certainly lead to a manifest
homosexuality.
That is, a sexual attraction towards other men who wear lycra boxer
briefs.
The same applies to any
object or garment belonging to male gender.
If a man gets aroused by wearing an object or garment belonging to the
same sex, he will get aroused by seeing other men who wear it, and this will
degenerate into a manifested homosexuality.
This is known as homosexual fetishism, narcissistic fetishism or
narcissism.
Here we can conclude that homosexuality has its origin in narcissism or
homosexual fetishism, i.e. sexual arousal towards oneself while is worn
certain clothes or objects.
The treatment for male homosexuality caused by narcissism or homosexual
fetishism consists of subtracting the erotic power to the libidinal object
(homosexual fetish).
This results in this ways:
1. Wearing the garment without that it causes you sexual arousal, this is accomplished avoiding that erogenous
zones are not stimulated by the clothes.
B. Homosexuality caused by the incomplete
development of male identity due to masculine attributes that the homosexual
feels he has no or presents a deficit.
The title says it all: the homosexual feels he lacks or has a deficit of
male attributes that he sees and wants of another man.
“It seems apparent that some homosexuals choose as sexual objects people
who have characteristics —physical, personal or both —in which they
themselves feel deficient. . . . Dissatisfaction with the self, with the
way one is .. . measured against internalized standards about how one
would like to be . . . may be one of the major roots of some
homosexual feelings and behavior.” (Kaplan)
Kaplan continues:
“Often the homosexual seeks that quality that he feels lacking in
himself, but which he sees in the other. Thus, the union gives him the feeling,
at least momentarily, that he is now whole, or through identification, now
possesses the missing quality.”
The treatment for male homosexuality caused by a lack or a deficit in
masculinity consists of
subtracting the erotic power to the libidinal object (the beloved man), through
the adaptation and integration in oneself of what was previously sought in
another man and was a source of sexual arousal.
With this achieves a full development of male identity, and therefore, a
full identification with the men that before used to be attractive and a
source of sexual arousal for the patient.
In full agreement with the APA and WHO we consider that homosexuality is
not a mental illness but as a different expression of the attraction for the
erotic object.
Thus, we are not against the investigation to determine the causes of
why a person feels sexual arousal towards different sexual objects from what
normally should be.
Written by Rafael Medina.
Translated from Spanish into English.
